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Plymouth Branch Burns Lunch

A snippet of another fun fundraising event that was hosted by Chris & John Rankin. 

Burns night lunch at Riverview whilst raising funds for Plymouth branch. Thank you to all those who attended, the fabulous toasts from Gordon Walker and Wendy Hawkins and to Sandra Walker who entertained us with many of her favourite "dits".

Thanks also to everyone for their help in putting our house back in order

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Watch Ashore National AGM

The National AGM will take place in Hull on 12th and 13th May. It would be lovely to see as many of you as possible, we have managed to secure a really good deal from the hotel and details have already been circulated. We shall be staying at the Willerby Manor Hotel which is just outside of Hull.    It is a Best Western Hotel and has nice gardens and an indoor pool which is available for guests to use.  There are some good pictures on line so just type in name of the hotel and take a tour. Hope to see you there.

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Social Media Project

Project Report 2016

The Watch Ashore has been supporting merchant navy families since 1933 and like most organisations it has seen its membership wane and decline, going from, in its’ heyday  with hundreds of members and 16 branches throughout the UK, to now just five/six active branches.  
We were given a fantastic opportunity working with the Merchant Navy Welfare Board. Using a grant from the Merchant Navy Fund, short training courses in the use of social media were provided in a project that aimed to help the organisation raise its profile, improve its outreach and increase its membership.
Following on from my report at last year's AGM, you know the funding was granted in Sept 2014 and the subsequent courses took place in the training suite of the MNWB offices.  In total 8 members have been inducted and although we did have more volunteers the dates of the training courses didn't fit in with their other commitments.   Our volunteers come from Yorkshire, Scotland , Cornwall and Devon. 
In October 2014 the first group of Watch Ashore members travelled to Southampton to attend  one of three proposed training courses on Social Media, Welfare Guidance and Signposting.    We were all given Samsung Tablets for the project and the first challenge facing us was how to use them!  Fortunately they were all set up and ready to go.   It certainly was a baptism of fire and boy did we feel apprehensive.  The one thing we were not short on was enthusiasm and slowly we got to grips with Facebook and less confidently with Twitter.  It certainly has been a very steep learning curve as we embraced the “social media world”.  
The re-vamped website has been up and running since last March 2015 and we are continually reviewing it and making adjustments to improve as necessary.  As well as giving advance notice and information about fundraising events and celebrations organised by the different maritime charities, we have blogs from members, branch news and links to various support networks.  Through the website we were approached by a London PR Agency who had been commissioned to do a report for the Royal Merchant Navy Education Foundation. Various subjects such as Schools, health, family, financial and communications were covered and some of the points that we submitted were included in the report.   The Bridge Report was published in September and if nothing else, it gets us mentioned along with Maritime Charities and reached a very wide audience.   
We have had various contacts via the website and some, like the one previously mentioned, have been very productive.   We have made The Watch Ashore  visible on social media  although over the years both at Branch and National level, the Watch Ashore has supported and raised funds for many Maritime Charities – (Mission to Seafarers, Apostleship to the Sea, Sailors Society, Seafarers UK and Deep Sea Fishermen to mention a few).  We have strengthened these ties, whilst making new ones, with the other various Maritime charities, notably with the NFF, and in general have made ourselves known to the wider maritime community.  We worked very closely with Find the Sea Families campaign, Sailors Children Society and now have well established working relationship with them. 
What has become obvious with younger seafaring families, is that the feeling of isolation, and others not understanding the seafaring way of life, is still relevant today but due to lifestyles, work commitments our more formal way of meeting up doesn’t appeal anymore and this is where using social media has given The Watch Ashore a lifeline to continue offering support and friendship to merchant navy families. 
We all have friends who fit into different groups. They might be neighbours, school friends, work colleagues, family etc. With social media an intrinsic part of everyday life, friendship groups or meetings still play an important role in supporting the partners of seafarers through the good work of The Watch Ashore.    We think the need for that type of group is still very relevant today.  With our hectic fast paced lifestyles, it is good to stop and take time for yourself, socialising with someone who knows the ups and downs of life with a seafarer.   Since Watch Ashore have started using social media we have gained some new younger members, like Mila who has joined the Plymouth branch.  Mila, whose husband is in the RFA, has recently become a British Citizen and we are delighted to have her join us.  Carole and Ashley are also new members, who live in Scotland and because they, and some other new members, don’t live near a branch we try to meet up every couple of months for lunch/drinks and in between times keep in touch via our closed facebook group. 

We want to recruit more members to the Watch Ashore, and hopefully share the joy, friendship and support that we have enjoyed.  It can be a lonely frustrating lifestyle but we are here to offer support and social media is a contemporary way to respond to the needs of seafarers families.    At the start of this project our aims were to raise our profile within the wider maritime communities, reach out to younger seafaring families, and hopefully increase our membership.    Although our funding has come to an end we will continue to raise our profile and offer friendship and support to all seafaring families. 

The MNWB and AMB Marketing, has given us the tools, knowledge and encouragement to reach out via social media channels, and also the confidence to keep improving on the success we have achieved so far.    The Watch Ashore can never thank them, or The Merchant Navy Fund, enough for giving us the opportunity to raise our profile and hopefully ensure that The Watch Ashore has a brighter future.

Facebook.
The Facebook page was set up as an awareness tool to let people know about us and to share information.  It has been very successful and feedback from people and other organisations, who have liked our page, is that they find it friendly and informative.  We get weekly status reports and regularly reached over 300 viewings a week.  Sometimes other viewings and likes hit nearly a thousand as was the case when we highlighted the British Legion not inviting MN WW1 veterans to participate in the Festival of Remembrance.
As you will appreciate we are constantly reviewing how we can improve or adapt our social media presence and one significant change is that we now have a closed Facebook group.  This has only happened in the last few months as feedback from prospective and new members, taking into account current lifestyles and their familiarity with social media, the forum wasn’t working for them and as the focus was engaging and attracting younger members we had to address this issue and the Watch Ashore Members Group was created.     Using the closed group as opposed to the forum means no cost involved and it is easy to manage and promote, any member can join the group either by requesting or by invitation from a current member.
Twitter
We were less confident about this and it took a while to feel comfortable posting tweets etc.  After a slow start I am delighted to say that we have a well established presence on Twitter.  We have regular followers and every day we tweet and retweet comments.  One of the contacts via our twitter page is from Carl Hough who does the remembrance pins.  We also get private messages via the site and of course support and promote maritime charities in whatever campaign is current.  For example:-  Woolly Hat Day. Seafarers Awareness Week.  Came by Ship.  Merchant Navy Day. #JustSaying the new campaign from Mission to Deep Sea Fishermen.
We also use other social media sites such as Instagram, Google+, snapchat, What’s App and really it is the choice of the volunteer which media she prefers. 
Signposting and Guidance.
Obviously because of confidentiality I can’t disclose personal details but I can tell you that through various social media channels we have been able to reach out and help families we are fulfilling our aims, we have also referred people to Seafarer Support, SAIL and various other agencies.
In conclusion I think we have achieved our objectives of raising The Watch Ashore profile, working closer with the maritime community and have gained new members.    I have thoroughly enjoyed being part of this project and would like to thank everyone involved for all their help and support.

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Bristol

Last weekend we held our Annual General Meeting in Bristol and it was a very successful weekend.  Over forty members attended from various parts of the country and on the Friday evening we had our welcome get together in the function suite of the Radisson hotel.   The happy chatter and smiling faces from that night set the tone for the rest of the weekend.  Our first get together of the weekend is always an informal evening where we get the chance to meet new friends and catch up with everyone.
Saturday morning was our AGM and at this meeting we said farewell and thank you to our outgoing National Chairman, Chris Rankin, and also to our Treasurer Helen Rendle.   Chris handed over to Sue Williams who will be our National Chairman for the next three years.  We also had a Vice Chairman appointed, Christine Payne, and a new Treasurer, Sandra Walker.
A change to our Annual Dinner was that this year we had it in a venue away from the hotel.   We went to Avery’s Wine Cellars where we had a very generous (hic) tasting of wine followed by a superb meal supplied by Cherry Picked Catering.   In true Watch Ashore style it was an evening full of fun and laughter. 
Sunday morning was our outing and this was slightly overshadowed because of the rain but it didn’t dampen our spirits!  We had a tour around the Bristol waterways; passing Brunel’s SS Great Britain and admired all the fancy yachts moored in the Marina. 

All too soon it was time to head back to the hotel and say our farewells. 
A few words from Chris Rankin
…after last night’s great evening catching up with so many Watch Ashore friends – and of course enjoying a few cocktails, it's time for some coffee whilst preparing for my final AGM as National Chairman when I will hand over to the new Chairman Mrs Sue Williams. It's been an amazing 7 years, 3 as Vice Chairman and then the last 4 as Chairman. I've enjoyed working with so many Maritime charities and learned so much from you all so I'd like to thank Merchant Navy Welfare Board (MNWB) Seafarers' Advice and Information Line (SAIL)
Mission to Seafarers the Fishermen's Mission Seafarers Awareness Week Trinity House Sailors Childrens Society Sailors' Society Apostleship of the Sea AMB Marketing Limited the Merchant Navy Association.
I wanted to thank the hardworking Executive committee, Sue Williams, Suzanne Spencer and Helen Rendle for their amazing support. All their hard work has paid off and our AGM weekend has started in its normal fashion -renewing friendships and a spot of retail therapy as we gather together at the Radisson Blue Hotel Bristol. Some of our members have been unable to join us through illness and we wish them all a speedy recovery and look forward to meeting up with them at our 2017 AGM wherever it may be!
 

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Annual Meeting

This weekend fifty of our members will be in York for our Annual National meeting.   It is always a great weekend full of fun and laughter meeting up with old friends and catching up with each others' news.   It is amazing how quickly you pick up from when you last met and soon the room is filled with chatter and laughter.  It is a very informal evening and a nice way to start our weekend as many of us have travelled that day from various parts of the UK. 
Saturday morning we have our general meeting when we hear about all the things that the various branches have done in the past year.  We also get a report from the National Chairman telling us about the various events that she has represented us at.   All the ladies love a bit of shopping and sightseeing so we make sure that we have plenty of “free time” to enjoy the local attractions and do your own thing.   The dinner on the Saturday evening is a bit more formal in as much as we have a wine reception beforehand and usually a guest speaker.  The formality doesn’t stop the fun and laughter and the comments we always get from guests is that they have never met such a happy group.
We do enjoy getting together and these annual weekends are such an important part of maintaining this friendship and support for each other.  We are all very individual with different likes and dislikes but what we have in common is the seafaring bond and it is just lovely to be with people who are in a similar situation.  It is like having “me time” where you can just relax in nice surroundings with good company – not forgetting a bottle of wine or two!
If you think this circle of friendship and support is for you then please get in touch we would be delighted to meet you.   You can send in the enquiry/contact form and we will respond within 24hrs and if you are near York this weekend why not come and meet us.
 

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Friendship Circles

We all have friends who fit into different groups/circles.  Neighbours, school pals, work colleagues, family etc. Apart from family the one group that I am very close to is my Watch Ashore friends.
I am lucky that I have family living nearby and always enjoyed plenty of support.  No one in the family or any of my friends was married to anyone in the Merchant Navy.

After being married a few years and moving to a new house one of the neighbours invited me to come along to the Watch Ashore.  To be honest I was coping fine and didn’t want to mix with anyone who felt sorry for themselves etc.  Eventually I ran out of excuses not to go and when I did what I found was a great group of women various ages and backgrounds who had a very similar life to my own.     Very much their own person, half full glass and not half empty glass type of people.   Like everything in life they are some you can relate to better than others but everyone was open and friendly. 

I think the need for that type of group is still very relevant today.  With our hectic fast paced lifestyles, it is good to stop and take time for yourself, socialising with someone who knows the ups and downs of life married to a seafarer.  Social media is very relevant in today’s world but it can’t replace the good old coffee and chat, friendly hug or just the sympathetic ear of someone who just “gets it”

When my children were small and all their friends were going to “daddy’s work Christmas party” they didn’t feel left out because our local watch ashore always organised a children’s Christmas party and it became a highlight of their year.  Santa always made an appearance and everyone was delighted with their gift.

Another thing that I enjoy is our AGM weekends.  We have had some great weekends with plenty of laughter, shopping, sightseeing and generally enjoying each others’ company.   As they say “what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas” same can be said for our weekends! 

 

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